7 Things you need to let go of if you want your marriage work
Fear of What May Go Wrong
Getting married means putting your full faith, finances, and future in another human being, which is a terrifying concept. A focus on past relationships might also mean that you're terrified of your SO exhibiting traits of behaviors of your exes. "I see that getting in the way a lot, like you've been cheated on in the past and now you're afraid your husband will do it," DeAlto says. Talk out those fears with your partner to you can both identify when your anxieties are clouding your vision.